let's do something now.

Started my sem break, I realized I have wasted so much time by doing nothing. Long holiday make me feeling like forever, but actually you don't have much time you think you have.

So I make some changer for my holiday plan. I will start to build up my body through this holiday and at the same time, read more books and prepare for my next semester. These plans sound very easy to be achieved, but you never know until you actually doing it.

For my advices, let's play a 30-days program. You can choose few tasks to do. The reason to make it in 30-days is because we can train our habits, once you uses to do it daily, its will became a habit for you. It's a short term program. After that you can expend it into 100-days.

Follow by the steps, you can manage your life style and at the same time, achieve your target.

What's wrong with our behavior now?

Every lesson learned from now, if we can't learn from it and teach by next generation, it's useless.

Why our humanity moving so slow? The main reason may come from the basic of human society : education. Knowledge and moral value is both different things; you have high education doesn't means you have high moral value. What we learnt from books should be apply on our daily as well. Society are built by human connection; you can't built a society alone.

Most of the education system are focusing on grade instead of student behavior. It's hard to "measure" the psychology status of a children, early decision or misunderstanding may ruin the children life. The only thing we can do is giving a good example and teach them when they were young, same goes to adult. We can just grade their moral value base on their understanding instead of their actual behavior.

The only way to observe their behavior is through out their daily life, we correct them when they doing something wrong, we help them when they get confuse. We can't help them to decide where to go, we can only assist them to choose the right way.

5 Things we should apply for planing schedule.

To be a self leaner, you should really plan your schedule on the day and for future. Be wise to use your time, you will gain more than other people.

1) Don't spend time on something repeatedly.
Sometime, we are spending unnecessary time doing decision making on something repeatedly daily, such as where to have your meal,  what color of shirt you sure wear or what to drink later. So, don't spend the time making the decision you already know, you should probably know what to wear for the day depend on where and what you gonna do later or what you gonna do next, be simple and make sure it's comfortable for you, that is the best choose you make.

2) Plan your schedule one day before
Before you go to your bed, plan what you gonna do for next day, when making your next day schedule, you will simulate the whole day process in your mind, it help you to be ready for the next day and probably you won't gonna lost your schedule later.

3) Prioritize your schedule
When you making your plan, prioritize your tasks, try to keep it simple, and easy for you to refer. Don't plan too many tasks for you, you should follow by what important for you; too many tasks will just eat your time and end up nothing to be done.

4)  Interrupt is acceptable, but using the gap to solve it.
We will get interrupt all the time, no matter what form its come from. Such as fb update, twitter, email and so on, follow your priority and  solve it during the time gap, don't let all the unnecessary thing become your priority, you have a plan and follow it, unless it's something more important thing to do, otherwise just follow your schedule.

5) Finish all your tasks on time
Be focus on what you are doing right now; if you are not a highly concentrate person, try apply 20/5 rule, it's means you are using 20mins of time fully concentrate on what you are doing now, and during the time, don't bother for other things, and take a 5mins break doing whatever you want to do, like replying email or look for update news.

When everything is done, have a good night sleep and get ready for the next day.

The power of Sharing

Learning without boundary. Try to think back the old time, when knowledge are sharing amount the peers, and it's so easy to exchange different thoughts and ideas.

Sharing is a easy way to learn fast, like teacher sharing and teaching their knowledge to us, and people sharing the latest information to us. It save us a lot of time for doing our own research, and it helps you to narrow down the scope for you to get the accurate answer. Knowledge can be everywhere, gaining knowledge should be from everywhere too.

Sharing is a way for you to gain more. When you are sharing what you already know, at the same time you are review your own memory. You are teaching others and do the revision for your own.

Sharing is not means to show off what you already know. Its means that you are willing to help other. Senior will share their story to junior for them to learn from the mistake they did, to avoid them do the same mistakes. Like all the history tough us, we can learn from what they share to us.

All the knowledge we learnt from other should be determine by our self. We are not directly follow what they said, we received and analysis it, only it's truth then we accept it. Social media share a lot of information to us daily, news and information sometime are sending without verifying. Pick the right media and analysis by yourself, follow blind will just lead you to fall. Being responsible for what you share is also importance.

The more you share, the more you gain.

Who I support to be me?

Who am I?
I'm just me.

You knows who am I from the day you knows me.
You knows who am I from what I act.
You knows who am I from what I spoked to you.

We all defined by other. Are you really who you are?