Your playlist might tell you who you really are.

Music is a most common way for people to express their feeling, same like the poem and writing, it's reflected what your thoughts or feels. With a bad emotion can't write a joyful article; sometime we can call this is our “mood”.

The play list in your phone or laptop might tell you what kind of characters you really are. You can't enjoy the sad song when you feel happy, you needs something can reflect your happiness from you current emotion.

It's a reflection of your personality from the play list. Positive people like to listen the song or music which fast tempo, well negative people whould like to enjoy in more slower and low tempo.

It's hard to observe a person from what you just looks at them. People may act according of thier roles, but a personality is from their inside, what is the origin of their thought. It's a base of them.

Sometime, it's very hard to speak out what you feel now. Some moment just indescribable, you can't find out a single to describ it. But music can simply release it; the emotion, feeling and thoughts.

Talkative people which like to listen pop-song, rock song, it create the topic for them to others. Sensetive people which more likely to listen to soft music, it clear their mindset and let them immerse in their world.

Just like some people would prefer for clubing song or heavy matel, those are strong tempo help them to release their stress or to have a moment run out from the reality.

So that, to know whether the person has a same taste with you or not, try to see what kind of song they like to listen.

What is your reflection?

What you think and do will all reflected to you. Your reaction, feeling, manner, language, all these things will all reflected to you. How you treat others, others will treat back to you, but how to determinate your own reflection?

Everyone has their own opinion to other, inside of them, they will give everyone a label, how they treat you will base on the label they gave to you; how they give you the label? It can from different form such as rich, benefit, advantages, sympathy and a lot more. They evaluate other with their own stander, so please don't others, if they didn't put you in the first place. 

But don't worry, it will help you to find out who is same type with you. Who will stay with our own friend zone at the end. Your friends will determinate who you are, only the same thought of people will group together.

Just like in University, first day come to campus you will meet a lot of people, and easily to be friend with them. But when the time goes by, you will get to know your friends more; some may be comfortable with you, some may not be so. So it's OK for you to lose a few friends, it will help you to find up your true friends.

What if you think other is don't understand you, please be patient, maybe they just don't know you yet.

Practice makes you perfect, experience makes you expert.

What is genius means for us now? We always heard people say to someone who did very well in certain area they are smart or genius, but what makes them become so good in that field?

Some people are very smart, they are fast learner in new environment or learning new things, some may need to take longer time for them to fit into it, but no matter how, even the smarter people didn't do well preparation it will fall; slower learner will a lot of practices will makes them overcome all the weakness.

Practice a lot makes you think faster; just like maths, if you doing a lot of practices, from different kind of question, different kind of difficulty, it will help to increase your knowledge and thinking speed. When future if you are facing some similar question, first come to your mind will be the past experience; all the practices you did before will help you solve the question.

Just like learning swimming; once you know how to swim, our body will remember all the postures, when you accidentally fall down into a pool, your body will remember how to react before even your thinking. Because all the practices will remember inside your mind.

It's not about how smart when you're born, but how much affect you put into it in the future. If you have the gift but without utilized it properly, end up it will just wasted.

Hardworking will overcome all those not enough, laziness will wasted all those gifts.

Giving up is the way for you to move forward.

Giving up what you should give up. Giving up is not a shame; sometime if you too concentrate on something not worth to you, you may lose something worthy to you.

Giving up on bad feeling or past and let it be the lesson for us, we don’t need to keep ourselves stuck inside the past memories, but take it as a lesson; we can’t escape from our past, but let it go is a must, we can’t carry so many things, just like our memory, our heart need to put down something in order to receive other good thing; too much sadness will stop us here. 

Keeping too many things will just become our burden; if you feel tired to carry so many things, let others to help you. Take a rest and look around you, maybe the most beautiful thing is just beside you.

You can focus on what you want to achieve, but don't forget, there is still someone who love you the most, behind you, supporting you. Along the way, you are not alone, giving up something not belong to you, appreciate those meant for you, is the way for you to move forward.  

Past is past, the future is still there.  Let the past be the force to drive us moving forward.

What you feel matters.

Some people will get touching by simple thing, some will get angry by little thing, some will feel jealous or fall in love with someone. Emotion come from our nature, it's from the deep inside of our heart. 

Emotion is feeling, what you feel will actually effect others and it will feedback to you. Personal emotion can influence others; if you feel sad, the sadness will transfer to other; Happiness also can be transfer to other. People can easily detect others feeling by looking at their face expression, by their action, or the way they talk to others; you can share your feeling by a lot of ways, such as tell them a story, share to your friends, or most simple way is direct tell them what you feel now. 

It's a message you send to other people too. Same goes to what message you want others to received. Positive emotional people always surround by many people, because what they bring out is the message of hope, people will feel that life might not be so bad,  there still a hope, it's still a possibility there.

But negative emotional people will give people a different feeling. Surrounded by them will make you feel down or hopeless, and no many people would like to stay surrounded by them for long time. Some will avoid to contact with them. That will make them get stuck inside and cannot get out from the feeling. 

I'm not saying that you can't have a negative emotion, just that you need to know when and how to release your negative emotion. Well you can go to sport, karaoke, playing game and share your story to your friends, this all will help will to release your negative emotion. There are many ways to release it, and it can reduce the bad emotion influence to others, and bring you back to positive side. 

It's not wrong to have a negative emotion, it's a part of us, but we should find out the proper why to release our negative emotion, and bring a better environment to you and others.

Don't spend too much time in social network, you have more important thing to do.

Internet become a very convenience tool for us, more and more application are helping our daily life. Login to social network has become part of our daily routine, but have anyone of you actually calculate how much time you spend on social network everyday?

As for me, I estimated myself spending around 8 hours per day on it. Not continuously, but if I add up all the time I spend on it. I think probably will more than that.

If you want to be more productive, be organized to use the social network.

I'm not saying we should stay away from social network, it's very useful for us, but if we can use it in more "production way" it will be benefit for us.

Time just pass by without giving any notification. For you to use it more organized, I will always do these to to balance my time in social network.

1) Make a to-do list and estimate the time for each task.

 I will list out the tasks I gonna do on that day every morning. Every tasks I will give it a estimate time to finish it, so once I process to the first task, I will make sure during the time I will fully concentrate on it. After I finished my task, take sometime to rest your mind, during that time, you can do whatever you want. But, don't make it more than 1 hour, or else you will lose your focus on what you gonna do next.

2) Focus on what you are doing now

There is too many distraction around us, some people even can't focus when the wifi is on to their devices. If you really want to done something, you need to focus it. If you think you can't focus when you phone is on, close it. Or put a notification there to your friends say you are busy right now, get back to them in 2 hours. You won't die for switch off you phone or wifi for 2 hours, so concentrate in what you during now. Do the right thing in the right time.

3) Break between the gaps.

Actually sometime we are just wasting too much time on social network, we just keep sweeping it and do nothing. So why don't put it aside, and concentrate with current task, using the gap to read the news on facebook or message is enough for you to get up to date with your friends and news.Use the gap for rest, don't make the social network having most of the time of your day. You are the one can control the time. Not others.

What you think might not be who you are.

We always heard people said this before "you are who you think you are". But actually it is not true. What you think might not make you become who you want to be, it will only make you become dreamers. 

But what actually make you become who you want to be?

1) Action speak louder
Act like one of them. Learn from them.

If you want to don't want to suffer in last minutes work, do it early; if you don't want to be late in a meeting, wake up early and prepare early. Thing is simple, change your bad habits, learn the good habits from them. Through out the learning process, you will find out it is actually very easy to be who you want to be.

2) Mind you mindset

Everything start from your mind. Your thought decided what you gonna do next. First you must clarify with your mindset, what you want to achieve, what is your goal, what kind of leader you want to be? All these start from a mind. You THINK you can do it. then you will put your thought into action. Think like them and make you own decision what you gonna do next. THINK will not make you become who you want to be. But your own decision does.

3) Talk

If you want to be a leader, talk like a leader. Words are powerful, mind your words, because what you said will follow you forever, you can't escape from your what you said.Think before talk, because the mind come first before your mouth. Don't let you mouth faster than your mind, the content is also important, you won't heard your boss or leader using the meeting time talking gossip with others. It's will only ruin their image. So take care of your words and make it valued.

What I learned from doing the group assignment.

Rushing has became a second term of living style. Everyone is rushing to their jobs, works, or others stuff. Scared if they are slower then others, they will become loser.

Everyone has the same time per day, the different between those who achieved more or less is the way they manage the time, and how to keep them

We common heard people said they have no enough time to finish they work or task, but it's matter is how you manage your time well.

1) Procrastination
People always like to wait until before the due date then start to do their work; or some are waiting for their "mood" come first then only start to do it. How I over come it? I will set a due date early than the actual due date, that make me got extra time to double check my work is correct or not.

2) Concentration
Internet, phone, social network created a lot of destruction for you when you really want to focus on something; keep checking of your notification will just put you far away from the productive life. If you really want to concentrate in doing something, set a time for yourself, during the periods, turn off all your devices, and fully concentrate in it.

3) Separate tasks into smaller part
If you are doing a project in group, try to separate into a small part and distribute to your team members. Set a due date from the day to distribute the tasks to them and make sure they send you back the updates; too many meeting will just let your team become more tired, set a due date to them will save the time to gather everyone, and they can direct report the problem to you, and can make sure you can finish all the task on time.

People waste a lot of time, and they wish for more. more hours for a day, more days for a year. Work and life should be balance, too much work or too much enjoy of your life will just let you seek for more time to spend. Spend your time wisely, because we can't make buy back the time we wasted.

Quality of Education

Does quality of education really become better?

Are we going to the wrong way of education? Educator should bring up the curiosity of study to explore the knowledge, no matter the student is slow or fast learner, both should be care.

High school always is a headache for teachers, like fighting, attitude problem, bullying cases and so on. These situation already exist for a long time, but why thes didn't getting better but even worse. 

Do we really ask this question to oursel before? Are we really care about them more than the result they take? Some teachers are really want to help the students, they put a lot of mind in the way they teaching for student easily to understand more, but some are just let the student pass by the time in class and at the end of month they can get the salary.

Tests and exam become the normal ranking system for students, school using exam to test the understanding of study and separate them into different classes. The purpose of that is to group them into different category and easily for teacher to teach them in different way. But now, people used to think the above classes are means to the smarter kids and the below classes means to the bad kids. It's a totally wrong concept, and we shouldn't think of it in this way.

Education doesn't means to rules, education is to explore the knowledge, giving you the concept, but the way you do it can be different. Not like giving you the only path to follow, and you must follow it. Study is fun and it's truth, but different people have different study style, don't force students to follow your way, you once as a student, you should follow your own way.

Education doesn't means for teaching the knowledge only. Attitude and moral values should all be concern by the teachers, children are like a white paper, and it should fill up with ideas, dreams, cares and kindness.

Chase no one but yourself

Chasing others people steps will not make you become another S/HE. You will feel lose in the end if you wish to become someone else, because you don't have a purpose, because you don't know what is your objective. If you have a purpose, have a dream, y yourself, you can't achieved it following others people back.

-"Chase excellent, success will follow" this quote is from the movie < 3 idiot >. This explain a lot for those who success.

We are from different background, the past define us but the future is create by yourself. Sometime we saw people who getting success you will feel like you can be one of them by doing what they does, but don't forget, we cannot see how much effort they put behind this, and how much suffer they have been go through, we all see the good side of them. Success is not easy like what you see, its need a lot of effort and sometime you need some luck to help you to achieved that.

You are the one should take responsible to yourself, doing nothing is actually doing a "thing", but do you willing to let the time pass by and achieved nothing?

No matter fast or slow, follow your own tempo, we can't force others people to follow your speed. Same goes to study, some people adapt faster some needs more practices, but at the end we will get the same result. It doesn't matter which way you choose, some goes fast, some goes slow and effort you put into in will also make us different.

We should put more attention on what we are doing now, instead of chasing someone else, life only live once, so don't waste the time, others people stories can be the story to inspire you, but the world don't need the same story, you are the main character in your story, so, create something for yourself, and bring the light and inspire others.

Study at night or study at morning better?

Nowadays, it's not hard to see that university students are more likely to study till midnight instead or study in the early morning.

Problem comes, which ways is the best way for study?

People may think that both also the same or maybe depends on student itself. For my opinion, study morning always better than study until midnight.

Here is some of the reason.

1. Morning make you more concentration

 No doubt with this, studying until too late will just let you lose your concentration and tired. Morning is the best time better for you to concentrate, when you mind is clear and without other distraction. Studying at morning will makes you better in memorizing and understanding, but when studying until too late, your energy and mind will getting more and more tired, it will makes you lose your attention .

2. Body need to rest too

 After a long day staying at campus, we are almost finished our energy in classes and meeting up with people. Body need to be rest and mind needs too, we are almost run out of energy to put our attention into study, it will only make study become struggle and
you can't study for a long time, then you feel tired already.

3.You've more time to use.
Studying until too late will waste your time for rest, and also its makes you hard to wake up in the morning. If you have morning class or meeting, you probably will get late. But wake up morning will not let you faces that problem. After woke up, do some simple excise to boots up your body and makes you more energetic. Its will help your concentrate in study.

You are making your life more exhausted or more productive?

Full of meeting and activities make you looks like you have done something everyday, but actually you are running out of your energy into too many things, and end up you feel tired and exhausted.

Here is a few tricks to make you life easier and save your energy to solve for important thing.

1) Focus on one thing in one time
In the conclusion is, do the right thing in the right time. People who procrastinate is because they always do the wrong thing in the wrong time, it makes the plan delay and also need to cover it back with more time. Don't do that, always focus one thing in one time, don't make others disturb you, research shown that we can only concentrate to do one thing no more than 2 hours.

I suggestion is, using 2 hours half for you to finish a task. First half hour will let you get into the situation, and the rest 2 hours will give you fully concentrate to finish it.

2) Make a to-do list and follow it
 Everyone knows how make a plan, but how many of them can really follow the plan until it finish?
During the time I organized some of the events in campus, ideally planing is easy by follow the time schedule, but on the event day, there was always unexpected situation happen.We call it interrupt.

When interrupt happen, we have to think of our priority. To-do like is to make by your priority, set up a to-do list not more than 6 tasks per day will make your easily to control it. 

3) Separate the big problem into small parts
Every big problem is connected with few of small problem, analysis a big problem and solve it is not easy. People is easy to look at the big problem, but it's hard for them to looks into it.

In order to spread it into small parts, we need to know what and how. What is what is your problem actually is, and How is how we gonna solve it. Get clear for it, find out the most possible solution, don't get into a cycle, there is always a way to go out.

4) Get enough rest
Don't make yourself become too busy, run out of energy everyday will just make you more tiring for the next day, it will become a cycle in your life. Try to take sometime to enjoy your day; pack of schedule will not make you looks more productive, it may make you looks like busy and unproductive. 

Using the morning time to do the important job with no distraction and it can make you fully focus on it. Have a breakfast to start your day, after finished a task, give yourself a break, rest your mind and it can make you concentrate to the next task.

5) Be positive
Sometime thing might not really follow what you plan for, but being too worry will just make yourself losing attention and cannot be focus in next thing, what you have done, it has already done, so don't worry too much, just follow the flow. Worry the unknown will just waste your time. Do what you can do, after that just let it be.

Does the fresh graduate really fulfill their requiretment in Malaysia?

Fresh graduate are you guys really prepared for your future challenge?

Students nowadays do they really seek for knowledge or just seek to passing in the exam?

I can see this happened in some of the classes, student nowadays study for pass instead of study for knowledge. It happened all the time.

What make this happen?

1) Study culture

In Malaysia, student more likely to follow by what teacher say instead or thinking it's right or wrong. During kindergarten, children start comparing each other, people afraid to be different, being different mostly means "bad kids" for them, . Teacher, even parents want the children to follow by the path they prepared from them, not let them to explore by their self. Soon, students lose their ability to study by their own and the world required them to do by their self.

2) Certificates environment

For you to find a job, first thing you have to do is submit your resume, what should you write into your resume? Of course is your qualification and detail. In order to get into the interview session, company will seek for the qualifier from the thousands of applier, one thing can make them different from others is the certificates you have. It's proved you have completed all the necessary process and knowledge. Its sound fair enough to everyone, but it  also bring up students who have the certificates but empty knowledge.

3) Attitude

Internet are too convenience for students, and follow by the entertainments; students can access a high speed internet in campus or library for doing their research or study, but people are more likely to use it and wasting time for no reason, just because they don't have mood to study.

Students have no concept in time management, procrastination is become a second term. Uni time is not really free like what you think, you don't have the time you think you have, students don't realize how much time they left for study and doing research for homework, this made them wasting a lot of time for not reason.

When students not interested in searching for knowledge it should be a problem people think of; passing the exam is not the only thing student focus on, study should have fun and interesting, passing exam is just a process to test what you have learned and not let the grade judging yourself, grade can be a reference, but not a guild line to be follow, a lot of talented students explored by the people with a normal result in tests, find out the talents from them is the one education should do.

3 Things different of live life regularly but not like a machine

Some people will misunderstand the meaning of living regularly and living like a machine. Have a same daily routine doesn't mean you are like a robot.
Having a regularly activities doesn't mean your like are like a machine.

1. With purpose
A life with and without a purpose will be a lot of different. People who live regularly mostly with a purpose. purpose is like an engine keep driving them moving forward and keeping them energy to do so.

2. With plan
Think before you talk, plan before you do can make you become smarter. In order to achieve something, without a proper plan it's hard to be done. Planing have to be clear and easy to understand. If possible, make it virtualized and break it into a few small parts, follow by the steps. It will make things easily.

3. With discipline
To keep yourself follow by the plan without procrastination, we need to discipline our self. People always wasting time to do the wrong thing in wrong time.
That made people become lazy and delaying. Once you set a target, you must achieve it, excuses will only create another ways for you to run always from you goal, so keep remind yourself why you start the plan, and keep moving forward.