You should stop compared yourself with other people's achievements. It's the most terrible feeling you will have if you keep chasing someone else. Everyone is unique and the faster way to improve yourself is to follow your own way. It's good if you have a competitor, but it's bad when you put too much focus on your competitor and lose yourself.
Here is the 3 things it will happen when you focusing others people too much;
1) You will lost your focus
A simple example in doing event. Every director wants to do better than the last term, and it may easily get into wrong way by forcing their committees to do something out of the range, without thinking the condition they have on hand.
It's good you have a goal to achieve, but the most important thing is what you can learn through out the whole process and the impact you give to others.
2) You won't feel happy
We need to take sometime by listening our thoughts. You should have your own direction; chasing someone else dreams is not your purpose.
Let's learn something new; follow your own interest, you will feel much more happy if you enjoy to do something you like.
3) You can't realize your own mistake.
You can't realize your own mistake by looking at someone else. We should take sometime to think back ourselves, ask yourself WHY and HOW, find out the reason on your own mistake, and you will find out a way for you to go.
No matters you are slow in something, step by step, you improve yourself everyday, you will be one step forward of something you want to achieve.
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