2016年1月29日星期五

Make Your Conversation Meaningful

We are talking everyday, no matter you are talking to yourself or with other, we are spending incredible time on talking. But have you realized that most of our topic are actually trash talks.

What is trash talks? Basically is all about gossip and talking rumors. Something not really matter to our self and other. How many of you have really think about is that necessary to be say?

Most of the time, trash talks are the easier way to find the topic, and maybe the other way to seek for attention. What I means of seeking attention is not a bad thing, if group of people going out to chill, but the whole trip are doing quietly, it's kind of weird, that kind of person are normally the center of the topic, people like to talk with them, because you will never feel boring.

Conversation is kind of influence; words is powerful, words can hurt people but can also help others.

 How's a conversation can help other?

Just like talking with a experiences leader, he will inspiring you to be someone great, from their stories and words, we can feel that the power behind it.

And those conversation which motivate us basically with these 3 points.
1) Meaning
2) Hope
3) Purpose

Talking with elder, their experiences and knowledge will guild us away from the wrong paths.

Make a conversation with others, sometime a simple conversation will explore who you are, how confident are you, and your background. If you interview two person, one is the active person in club and society, the other one rarely join event and other thing, from a simple interview like introduce yourself, you can easily observe two different reaction, one is full of confident, one may not really. This is because if you are often to due with people, you know exactly what you should answer, and you will do so.

Conversation is easy, but how much is really influence other. We tend to read those great people's words, from there we get motivate by them, and maybe you can be one of them.

Make a conversation that can be inspiring others, maybe they just need a little motivation from you, and they can achieved more than he know.

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