2015年12月26日星期六
What you like doesn't mean what you need
2015年12月12日星期六
Live at the moment.
Sometime, we are over planning our future but lack of execution. That created a lot of wasted time in your day. You must indentify your priority and be clear of what you what to achieved, or else you will just doing without a purpose.
Why don't try to narrow down your scope, set a short, middle and long term target, it will helps you to achieve more and be more productive.
Multitasking is not a really good option. Most people think multitasking is easy,you need to manage your time well, then you can finished all the tasks on time. But the same mistake we are keep repeating, which is planning over well. We didn't included the risks inside it. Some unexpected risk in it.
It cause our plan delay, some worst even giving up on the original plan. Only the experiences can help reduce the risk.
Live at the moment, future will come by the way it will, don't worry too much on it, eventually you will gonna faces it. Only thing you can do is do everything the best you can, at least you won't feel regret on what you already did.
Play safe rather than die all. Follow your own speed and do not compare with others, success doesn't has a shortcut, only hardwork will lead you to the end.
2015年11月2日星期一
3 Things you will happen if you compared yourself with others too much.
You should stop compared yourself with other people's achievements. It's the most terrible feeling you will have if you keep chasing someone else. Everyone is unique and the faster way to improve yourself is to follow your own way. It's good if you have a competitor, but it's bad when you put too much focus on your competitor and lose yourself.
Here is the 3 things it will happen when you focusing others people too much;
1) You will lost your focus
A simple example in doing event. Every director wants to do better than the last term, and it may easily get into wrong way by forcing their committees to do something out of the range, without thinking the condition they have on hand.
It's good you have a goal to achieve, but the most important thing is what you can learn through out the whole process and the impact you give to others.
2) You won't feel happy
We need to take sometime by listening our thoughts. You should have your own direction; chasing someone else dreams is not your purpose.
Let's learn something new; follow your own interest, you will feel much more happy if you enjoy to do something you like.
3) You can't realize your own mistake.
You can't realize your own mistake by looking at someone else. We should take sometime to think back ourselves, ask yourself WHY and HOW, find out the reason on your own mistake, and you will find out a way for you to go.
No matters you are slow in something, step by step, you improve yourself everyday, you will be one step forward of something you want to achieve.
2015年10月23日星期五
let's do something now.
Started my sem break, I realized I have wasted so much time by doing nothing. Long holiday make me feeling like forever, but actually you don't have much time you think you have.
So I make some changer for my holiday plan. I will start to build up my body through this holiday and at the same time, read more books and prepare for my next semester. These plans sound very easy to be achieved, but you never know until you actually doing it.
For my advices, let's play a 30-days program. You can choose few tasks to do. The reason to make it in 30-days is because we can train our habits, once you uses to do it daily, its will became a habit for you. It's a short term program. After that you can expend it into 100-days.
Follow by the steps, you can manage your life style and at the same time, achieve your target.
2015年10月21日星期三
What's wrong with our behavior now?
Every lesson learned from now, if we can't learn from it and teach by next generation, it's useless.
Why our humanity moving so slow? The main reason may come from the basic of human society : education. Knowledge and moral value is both different things; you have high education doesn't means you have high moral value. What we learnt from books should be apply on our daily as well. Society are built by human connection; you can't built a society alone.
Most of the education system are focusing on grade instead of student behavior. It's hard to "measure" the psychology status of a children, early decision or misunderstanding may ruin the children life. The only thing we can do is giving a good example and teach them when they were young, same goes to adult. We can just grade their moral value base on their understanding instead of their actual behavior.
The only way to observe their behavior is through out their daily life, we correct them when they doing something wrong, we help them when they get confuse. We can't help them to decide where to go, we can only assist them to choose the right way.
2015年10月19日星期一
5 Things we should apply for planing schedule.
To be a self leaner, you should really plan your schedule on the day and for future. Be wise to use your time, you will gain more than other people.
1) Don't spend time on something repeatedly.
Sometime, we are spending unnecessary time doing decision making on something repeatedly daily, such as where to have your meal, what color of shirt you sure wear or what to drink later. So, don't spend the time making the decision you already know, you should probably know what to wear for the day depend on where and what you gonna do later or what you gonna do next, be simple and make sure it's comfortable for you, that is the best choose you make.
2) Plan your schedule one day before
Before you go to your bed, plan what you gonna do for next day, when making your next day schedule, you will simulate the whole day process in your mind, it help you to be ready for the next day and probably you won't gonna lost your schedule later.
3) Prioritize your schedule
When you making your plan, prioritize your tasks, try to keep it simple, and easy for you to refer. Don't plan too many tasks for you, you should follow by what important for you; too many tasks will just eat your time and end up nothing to be done.
4) Interrupt is acceptable, but using the gap to solve it.
We will get interrupt all the time, no matter what form its come from. Such as fb update, twitter, email and so on, follow your priority and solve it during the time gap, don't let all the unnecessary thing become your priority, you have a plan and follow it, unless it's something more important thing to do, otherwise just follow your schedule.
5) Finish all your tasks on time
Be focus on what you are doing right now; if you are not a highly concentrate person, try apply 20/5 rule, it's means you are using 20mins of time fully concentrate on what you are doing now, and during the time, don't bother for other things, and take a 5mins break doing whatever you want to do, like replying email or look for update news.
When everything is done, have a good night sleep and get ready for the next day.
2015年10月8日星期四
The power of Sharing
Learning without boundary. Try to think back the old time, when knowledge are sharing amount the peers, and it's so easy to exchange different thoughts and ideas.
Sharing is a easy way to learn fast, like teacher sharing and teaching their knowledge to us, and people sharing the latest information to us. It save us a lot of time for doing our own research, and it helps you to narrow down the scope for you to get the accurate answer. Knowledge can be everywhere, gaining knowledge should be from everywhere too.
Sharing is a way for you to gain more. When you are sharing what you already know, at the same time you are review your own memory. You are teaching others and do the revision for your own.
Sharing is not means to show off what you already know. Its means that you are willing to help other. Senior will share their story to junior for them to learn from the mistake they did, to avoid them do the same mistakes. Like all the history tough us, we can learn from what they share to us.
All the knowledge we learnt from other should be determine by our self. We are not directly follow what they said, we received and analysis it, only it's truth then we accept it. Social media share a lot of information to us daily, news and information sometime are sending without verifying. Pick the right media and analysis by yourself, follow blind will just lead you to fall. Being responsible for what you share is also importance.
The more you share, the more you gain.
2015年10月6日星期二
Who I support to be me?
Who am I?
I'm just me.
You knows who am I from the day you knows me.
You knows who am I from what I act.
You knows who am I from what I spoked to you.
We all defined by other. Are you really who you are?
2015年9月27日星期日
Your playlist might tell you who you really are.
Music is a most common way for people to express their feeling, same like the poem and writing, it's reflected what your thoughts or feels. With a bad emotion can't write a joyful article; sometime we can call this is our “mood”.
The play list in your phone or laptop might tell you what kind of characters you really are. You can't enjoy the sad song when you feel happy, you needs something can reflect your happiness from you current emotion.
It's a reflection of your personality from the play list. Positive people like to listen the song or music which fast tempo, well negative people whould like to enjoy in more slower and low tempo.
It's hard to observe a person from what you just looks at them. People may act according of thier roles, but a personality is from their inside, what is the origin of their thought. It's a base of them.
Sometime, it's very hard to speak out what you feel now. Some moment just indescribable, you can't find out a single to describ it. But music can simply release it; the emotion, feeling and thoughts.
Talkative people which like to listen pop-song, rock song, it create the topic for them to others. Sensetive people which more likely to listen to soft music, it clear their mindset and let them immerse in their world.
Just like some people would prefer for clubing song or heavy matel, those are strong tempo help them to release their stress or to have a moment run out from the reality.
So that, to know whether the person has a same taste with you or not, try to see what kind of song they like to listen.
2015年9月22日星期二
What is your reflection?
What you think and do will all reflected to you. Your reaction, feeling, manner, language, all these things will all reflected to you. How you treat others, others will treat back to you, but how to determinate your own reflection?
2015年9月21日星期一
Practice makes you perfect, experience makes you expert.
Some people are very smart, they are fast learner in new environment or learning new things, some may need to take longer time for them to fit into it, but no matter how, even the smarter people didn't do well preparation it will fall; slower learner will a lot of practices will makes them overcome all the weakness.
Practice a lot makes you think faster; just like maths, if you doing a lot of practices, from different kind of question, different kind of difficulty, it will help to increase your knowledge and thinking speed. When future if you are facing some similar question, first come to your mind will be the past experience; all the practices you did before will help you solve the question.
Just like learning swimming; once you know how to swim, our body will remember all the postures, when you accidentally fall down into a pool, your body will remember how to react before even your thinking. Because all the practices will remember inside your mind.
It's not about how smart when you're born, but how much affect you put into it in the future. If you have the gift but without utilized it properly, end up it will just wasted.
Hardworking will overcome all those not enough, laziness will wasted all those gifts.
2015年9月19日星期六
Giving up is the way for you to move forward.
2015年9月18日星期五
What you feel matters.
2015年9月16日星期三
Don't spend too much time in social network, you have more important thing to do.
If you want to be more productive, be organized to use the social network.
What you think might not be who you are.
Act like one of them. Learn from them.
2) Mind you mindset
2015年9月12日星期六
What I learned from doing the group assignment.
Everyone has the same time per day, the different between those who achieved more or less is the way they manage the time, and how to keep them
We common heard people said they have no enough time to finish they work or task, but it's matter is how you manage your time well.
1) Procrastination
People always like to wait until before the due date then start to do their work; or some are waiting for their "mood" come first then only start to do it. How I over come it? I will set a due date early than the actual due date, that make me got extra time to double check my work is correct or not.
2) Concentration
Internet, phone, social network created a lot of destruction for you when you really want to focus on something; keep checking of your notification will just put you far away from the productive life. If you really want to concentrate in doing something, set a time for yourself, during the periods, turn off all your devices, and fully concentrate in it.
3) Separate tasks into smaller part
If you are doing a project in group, try to separate into a small part and distribute to your team members. Set a due date from the day to distribute the tasks to them and make sure they send you back the updates; too many meeting will just let your team become more tired, set a due date to them will save the time to gather everyone, and they can direct report the problem to you, and can make sure you can finish all the task on time.
People waste a lot of time, and they wish for more. more hours for a day, more days for a year. Work and life should be balance, too much work or too much enjoy of your life will just let you seek for more time to spend. Spend your time wisely, because we can't make buy back the time we wasted.
2015年9月11日星期五
Quality of Education
High school always is a headache for teachers, like fighting, attitude problem, bullying cases and so on. These situation already exist for a long time, but why thes didn't getting better but even worse.
Tests and exam become the normal ranking system for students, school using exam to test the understanding of study and separate them into different classes. The purpose of that is to group them into different category and easily for teacher to teach them in different way. But now, people used to think the above classes are means to the smarter kids and the below classes means to the bad kids. It's a totally wrong concept, and we shouldn't think of it in this way.
Education doesn't means to rules, education is to explore the knowledge, giving you the concept, but the way you do it can be different. Not like giving you the only path to follow, and you must follow it. Study is fun and it's truth, but different people have different study style, don't force students to follow your way, you once as a student, you should follow your own way.
Education doesn't means for teaching the knowledge only. Attitude and moral values should all be concern by the teachers, children are like a white paper, and it should fill up with ideas, dreams, cares and kindness.
2015年9月9日星期三
Chase no one but yourself
Chasing others people steps will not make you become another S/HE. You will feel lose in the end if you wish to become someone else, because you don't have a purpose, because you don't know what is your objective. If you have a purpose, have a dream, y yourself, you can't achieved it following others people back.
You are the one should take responsible to yourself, doing nothing is actually doing a "thing", but do you willing to let the time pass by and achieved nothing?
No matter fast or slow, follow your own tempo, we can't force others people to follow your speed. Same goes to study, some people adapt faster some needs more practices, but at the end we will get the same result. It doesn't matter which way you choose, some goes fast, some goes slow and effort you put into in will also make us different.
We should put more attention on what we are doing now, instead of chasing someone else, life only live once, so don't waste the time, others people stories can be the story to inspire you, but the world don't need the same story, you are the main character in your story, so, create something for yourself, and bring the light and inspire others.
2015年9月7日星期一
Study at night or study at morning better?
you can't study for a long time, then you feel tired already.
Studying until too late will waste your time for rest, and also its makes you hard to wake up in the morning. If you have morning class or meeting, you probably will get late. But wake up morning will not let you faces that problem. After woke up, do some simple excise to boots up your body and makes you more energetic. Its will help your concentrate in study.
2015年9月5日星期六
You are making your life more exhausted or more productive?
Here is a few tricks to make you life easier and save your energy to solve for important thing.
1) Focus on one thing in one time
In the conclusion is, do the right thing in the right time. People who procrastinate is because they always do the wrong thing in the wrong time, it makes the plan delay and also need to cover it back with more time. Don't do that, always focus one thing in one time, don't make others disturb you, research shown that we can only concentrate to do one thing no more than 2 hours.
I suggestion is, using 2 hours half for you to finish a task. First half hour will let you get into the situation, and the rest 2 hours will give you fully concentrate to finish it.
2) Make a to-do list and follow it
Everyone knows how make a plan, but how many of them can really follow the plan until it finish?
During the time I organized some of the events in campus, ideally planing is easy by follow the time schedule, but on the event day, there was always unexpected situation happen.We call it interrupt.
When interrupt happen, we have to think of our priority. To-do like is to make by your priority, set up a to-do list not more than 6 tasks per day will make your easily to control it.
3) Separate the big problem into small parts
Every big problem is connected with few of small problem, analysis a big problem and solve it is not easy. People is easy to look at the big problem, but it's hard for them to looks into it.
In order to spread it into small parts, we need to know what and how. What is what is your problem actually is, and How is how we gonna solve it. Get clear for it, find out the most possible solution, don't get into a cycle, there is always a way to go out.
4) Get enough rest
Don't make yourself become too busy, run out of energy everyday will just make you more tiring for the next day, it will become a cycle in your life. Try to take sometime to enjoy your day; pack of schedule will not make you looks more productive, it may make you looks like busy and unproductive.
Using the morning time to do the important job with no distraction and it can make you fully focus on it. Have a breakfast to start your day, after finished a task, give yourself a break, rest your mind and it can make you concentrate to the next task.
5) Be positive
Sometime thing might not really follow what you plan for, but being too worry will just make yourself losing attention and cannot be focus in next thing, what you have done, it has already done, so don't worry too much, just follow the flow. Worry the unknown will just waste your time. Do what you can do, after that just let it be.
2015年9月3日星期四
Does the fresh graduate really fulfill their requiretment in Malaysia?
Students have no concept in time management, procrastination is become a second term. Uni time is not really free like what you think, you don't have the time you think you have, students don't realize how much time they left for study and doing research for homework, this made them wasting a lot of time for not reason.
2015年9月1日星期二
3 Things different of live life regularly but not like a machine
Some people will misunderstand the meaning of living regularly and living like a machine. Have a same daily routine doesn't mean you are like a robot.
Having a regularly activities doesn't mean your like are like a machine.
1. With purpose
A life with and without a purpose will be a lot of different. People who live regularly mostly with a purpose. purpose is like an engine keep driving them moving forward and keeping them energy to do so.
2. With plan
Think before you talk, plan before you do can make you become smarter. In order to achieve something, without a proper plan it's hard to be done. Planing have to be clear and easy to understand. If possible, make it virtualized and break it into a few small parts, follow by the steps. It will make things easily.
3. With discipline
To keep yourself follow by the plan without procrastination, we need to discipline our self. People always wasting time to do the wrong thing in wrong time.
That made people become lazy and delaying. Once you set a target, you must achieve it, excuses will only create another ways for you to run always from you goal, so keep remind yourself why you start the plan, and keep moving forward.
2015年8月31日星期一
5 habits that change me everyday.
Since this semester started, I have set some tasks for me to achieve by the end of semester. It's not easy to start a new habit, but if you do it a little bit everyday, soon it will become your life style.
1. Wake up early
Started up this new semester, I was decided to wake up everyday at 6.00am, that give me more than enough time to prepared everything for the day. Normally I will start prepare my breakfast and listdown the tasks I need to done by the day. Morning is the moment your mind is clear and focus on thing easily, so do the planing in the morning will let you get ready for it.
Woke up early gave me a few hours of free time to do what I wanna do. So I choose to learn something new. What I chose is learning JAVA. I'm very interested in programming language, and finally I make my move into it. Go after your dreams, what you study or doing now doesn't means you cannot chase your dreams, use the free time to improve yourself, and one day you can achieved it too.
3. Work up body
I will choose one day to go to swimming and doing some simple physical training everyday. normally will be 10-15 minutes per day. Doing some simple exercise in early morning will boots up your energy and make you more concentration for what you gonna do next.
4. Early revision
I used to study last minute few semester ago, that made me struggle a lot. Especially when your knew you were not well prepared for it. People always said they can study the whole subject during a single night, well, I've doubt it. But if you separated it into few parts and study it in a few weeks, you will not that stress about it. You totally have enough time to do so. So why don't prepared it early, and you will have more time to review it again.
5. Enjoy my life
Life need to be balance, become a workaholic is not a good sign for everybody. Sometime we do need to take some rest for you to move further. Every end of the day, I will play online game with my friends and sometime read a article or book before going to bed.p
2015年8月30日星期日
5 Things I learned from doing part time job during my University life
University giving us a very flexible time to do what we wanna do. Beside than study, we still left a lot of time to be use. Therefore, I used my time gaps between classes to do the part time job. Here is what I learned from that.
1. Multitasking
As my work required me to do several task as a same time when the pick hour came, such as cooking the wafer cake, Ice- blender or making the corn, from the beginning I was like other feeling it's hard to handle. That made me start to think how to solve this problem, so i make a promise to myself, don't feel panic, and do the task one by one. people will get panic most of the time is they didn't plan well before doing, that makes a lot of things cannot be done on time. Using a limited time and finish several task by doing one task with another task, will make you easily to achieved multitasking.
2. Time management
As a student, our first priority is focus on our study, if you're joining any club or society or some are running l their own project, then you must learn how to manage your time well. If not, you might have a trouble now. There is always one secret of my time management, which is do the right thing at the right time. Most of the time we are doing the wrong thing in the wrong time, like settling club or event reports during lecture time or maybe using the meeting time settling personal stuff. Time is equal to all of us, so do the right thing in right time, it will save a lot of time for you.
3. Finance planning
I believe most of the students are borrowing loan from different organisation, the reason for me to do the part time job is to earn extra pocket money to handle my daily expenses. Every week I will plan for my daily expenses for that week, including meals, printing and grocery. Speared it into several amount and put one of it into saving, in case got any emergency happened.
4. Communication
No matter you are the leader, team member or customer, we all need to communicate to each others. As a worker, we need to communicate to knows what customer requests. So at the same time, it train my confident and also public speaking. It's not any other way to improve your speaking expect from practice. Practice makes perfect.
5. Attitude
Last but not least, is about the attitude. Attitude will decide how far you can go, humble is the only way to learn more. No matter who you were before, once getting into a new environment, first we much do is adapt it as fast as you can, and humble learning is the only way to achieved that.